How Can You Can Improve Your Oral Sex Skills and Make Her Explode? Popular Therapist Shares Secrets
How can I improve my oral sex skills?
I am a husband with keen interest in giving my wife a good oral s*x, but I lack the skill and courage. Is there a better way to goabout it? – Christopher Silvanus.
Below is the reponse he got from the therapist;
Think about something you excel at and chances are, you rock it because you really enjoy doing it. The same goes for giving
great oral sex. The best way to be great at oral sex is to learn to like it. Or at least act like you do. That will help her feel more
comfortable and then you will find you actually do enjoy it.
The biggest mistake husbands make when performing oral sex is going straight for the wife’s genitals. Don’t dive right in like it’s
a pounded yam-eating contest!
She’s not warmed up yet and it might even hurt her if she’s not aroused. The best thing to do is to tease her and draw out the
experience before you even start going down. Plant kisses on her abdomen and thighs. Use your hands to gently massage the
area surrounding her vagina to heighten her anticipation.
When you finally do make contact, start off slowly with slight licks and gentle caresses to warm her up. Use both the tip and
flat part of your tongue to flick and lick. Women tend to prefer circular motions, but experiment with different speeds and
pressure, and pay attention to how she responds.
If you’re feeling adventurous, try tracing the alphabet with your tongue, or lightly humming to create a slight vibrating
sensation. You can also throw your fingers into the mix to try a little G-spot stimulation along with your tongue. As she gets
closer to climax, keep doing exactly what you’re doing.
Once she’s had her Big O, return to the gentle kisses around her outer labia and thighs before popping your head up to
experience the praise for your hard work.